Serenity of the Sea

Serenity of the Sea

Saturday, April 13, 2013

April 13, 2013 Gaining Independence

Stages of Childhood
As children go through the various stages of development, one can see the push and pull of the need for independence. One minute he/she runs defiantly from you, and then the next moment the child is glued to your leg like white on rice! It is a confusing time which requires great patience from the parents and caregivers. Establishing an appropriate amount of freedom also requires a certain amount of self-confidence and the belief that he/she belongs to a social group which values them. I maintain that it truly does take a village to raise a child. Today I sent a card anonymously to a child I know with a message supporting her strengths. She, as is most everyone her age,is becoming more independent and learning how to develop her own interests. I think she'll appreciate her own individualized note just as would anyone from toddler to teen to adult because being recognized as special is a desire one never outgrows.

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